This woman and I have been dating for awhile, ive had a number of LTRs before, but this is her first one. She breaks up with me every month for like 2 days, but always comes back, realizing she loves me and doesnt want to lose me. She has some mental problems that would explain this behavior, however she often cites that as an excuse for things. Recently it’s been getting worse, and she will flip out at anything I say to her, completely irrationally. She has broken promises, and I always have to walk on eggshells. She takes me for granted, and doesnt appreciate me. I have done a lot for her. On our last break she slept with someone else. She said it made her realize she really doesnt want anyone but me and made her feel like shit, and that she is ready to have children with me, and marry me. We broke up again, about a week ago, because one of my conditions for getting back together with her is that she doesnt talk to that guy for a little while so I have time to get over it and forgive her for it. She was talking to him, and I got mad about it. We broke up. She has treated me more and more like shit for the past couple months or so, and I take it because of how good the relationship was before, and hope it was just a phase. The only thing she was doing was leaving every month for 2 days, which would bother some people but, didn’t really bother me. I’m to the point where I am really sick of it, everything is always my fault. I give and give and give and she doesn’t reciprocate. Any other girl, I would have ended it long ago, however, there is this really odd connection with her ive never had with anyone else, and the most intense, permanent feeling of love I’ve ever felt before in my life. I am going to talk to her and tell her I am sick of being treated like this and don’t deserve it, especially because I treat her well (obviously much longer than that with examples and whatnot) either way, but my real question is…

Should I give her the option of having one last chance to stop being like this before I leave? I know the way I am, if I leave, I do not come back, and it would be permanent. And I am prepared to do that now.

Topics: relationships, love, women, cheating, break-ups, forgiveness, last chances