Based on the bits of info…...if it were me (only my opinion for myself….okay?)
I would try to have the baby….but I would change my diet gently (with a baby anything radical would be too extreme)...I would go to the desert or stay in a place by myself (and away from all the toxic crazy people that will be waiting for me or my baby to croak…so many people hasten the death of someone with their negative comments and talking about death all the time). I would find an MD who also advocated alternative medicine and place myself in his/her care…like Gabriel Cousens in Arizona. But there are others.
I have had so many family members die of cancer…only to have chemo hasten their death, not heal them. Some people do fine on chemo, but most do not have a good track record. Besides, I wouldn’t want my baby filled with radiation.
I would pray, meditate, change my diet, take herbs, take long walks, find out “why?” and “why now?” and “what is the lesson that this is attempting to teach me?”....but most of all…..seek peace and peacefulness…and let go of all the resentment, old grief, old stuff that is affecting my condition…..I would prepare myself to live, not to die…because usually when one is struck with cancer, there is something inside one that has not been addressed…something deeper that needs to be healed.
Only my opinion….in truth, everyone has their own journey and it really is folly to think that anyone could even begin to know her heart….I hope and pray for her well-being.