Perhaps I was a little terse in my answer.
This doesn’t sound healthy to me at all. She wants you to “take care of everything.” This sounds like she wants no responsibility at all. I’m not sure what she means, exactly. Does she want you to, you know, cook meals, plan all outings, pay all bills, wash the dishes, and whatever? As in, literally, everything? What will she be doing in the meantime?
To “take care of her emotionally” sends up so many red flags and warning flares that I find it hard to find a place to start. It sounds to me like you’re involved with someone who may be a little flaky, psychologically speaking.
Maybe you love her. But I’m with someone who wants me to do everything (right down to making phone calls for her while I’m work even though she can easily do it) and accuses me of not taking care of her emotionally, yet she can’t tell me what that means. And believe me, there’s nothing that I don’t do.
In all honesty, I’m ready to blow my brains out. I would do it right now if I had a gun and a bullet. So my honest advice is to distance yourself. Find out just what the hell she means. And be ready to just drop her. Leave.