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What is the most polite and effective way of rejecting a would-be date that wouldnt hurt the other's feelings?

Recently, a friend of mine who is a female started making these little advancements to me with things like small physical contacts, very very hard to detect hidden meanings etc etc… She and I used to go out and have fun not like dating but as friends do and well the last time the whole thing started to turn a bit like a date and I’m kind of worried because I happen to have a crush on another girl and I really like this friend and dont want to hurt her feelings…I tried everything from extra classes, appointments, exams etc and well at some point Ill run out of stuffs to say and then we’d be on a probably would-be-date night outs and all that.

Sorry for writing such a long question. The short and condensed idea is this : Id like to get help in making a polite, effective rejection that doesnt hurt the other’s feelings.

PS : advices also help. Plz help me im real worried…and yeah my itouch was in a mess so i couldnt come to fluther for a while srry…

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