I live in Albuquerque and have for many years. It has steadily moved up in “best places” lists over the years, but it is mediocre in many respects. It’s a decent place to raise a family, and the economy is more stable (albeit smaller) than all some of your other options. Santa Fe is easily more quirky, refined, and charming. If you have money and want to live in some wilderness, check out San Pedro Creek Estates, Placitas or the far NE Heights of ABQ above Tramway.
Durango is beautiful, but expensive and with a limited economy. Many who who work in Durango live in surrounding towns.
I would say Austin and Denver are interchangeable in terms of economy and cosmopolitan offerings, so a choice between those two would boil down to preferences around weather, landscape and aesthetics. Both have great things to offer. Austin is hot and humid in the summers. Denver is kind of whitebread. Albuquerque is predominately hispanic and caucasian with Asian and Native American cultures coming in third.
ACVB Web site: itsatrip.org
If you want more info about ABQ, let me know. The forums on city-data.com/forum is also good for grounded opinions.