I live with my girlfriend at University. Bad move already, I know.

We split up for a bit at the start of this academic year, in which time she bought many men back to her room (I could hear EVERYTHING shudders) and she went through a few relationships. I eventually took her back. I couldn’t live with that going on next door and I was still in love with her.

We have now been together for about 6months since all of this. It’s been rocky, she’s lied to me many times and I’ve had threats from some of the men that she ‘dated’, but I’ve made it through.

Just a couple of weeks ago it transpired that one guy that she talks to every day (for hours at a time via the net) and that she had a ‘relationship with’ (his words not mine) wasn’t aware that me and her have been in a relationship. She maintains that she thought he knew. I fail to see how that is possible.

I’m becoming disillusioned and I am really unsure as to what I should do next. We haven’t got much longer left at University. I love her, but how can I trust her after everything detailed here? I shudder to think how much stuff must have gone on that I don’t know about. It really does make me feel sick.

So, What do you Jellies think that I should do? Where should I turn?