Mine was a guy I dated for two years. We started having sex 6 months into the relationship, but we were both still pretty young and since it was the first time for both of us, it wasn’t very good. At the time, I thought it was pretty good, but now I realize it was nothing in comparison to…this. lol. Anyhow, he’s very important to me. He was my first relationship, first everything sexual, and we’re still friends. He actually just came out to Colorado with his girlfriend and stayed with me for a week. It was a lot of fun…it wasn’t awkward at all which made me happy, since we had a really bad breakup and for almost a year afterwards we could barely be in the same room together without being so annoyed one of us had to leave. It was so stupid. But now all is well, hurrah.