the answers above are coming from people who most likely have High School sweethearts or were married before the age of thirty. I believe that thinking about a relationship before the age of 30 is a big mistake. Myself, being a man, realized that I was very imature when I got married, I married at 25 to my High School sweetheart, and was not ready for it. First of all I had nothing to offer at the time, financially I was just starting my business, so money was an issue. If you can’t make enough money to have your spouse stay home you do not need to be married or in a relationship. Establish yourself give the opposite sex a reason to want to be with you and never have a reason to look elsewere. There are billions of others out in the world that you still have not met so don’t sell yourself short don’t go to them let tj come to you.