I’ve been called pretentious, rich, snobby and stupid based off of my looks.
Perhaps it’s the city I live in (LA), but if these people had the opportunity to get to know me, they’d see I’m simple (as in I don’t need much to survive), poor and rather intellectual. People see a pretty girl and assume we must be stupid and have nothing else going for ourselves. I hate that shit. However, I think that’s just the mentality of people in LA. It may be different elsewhere. People truly underestimate me and women like me because of the way we look. They assume I have no brain, hence, people don’t take me seriously.
I’ve gotten quite a bit of unwanted attention as well. People wanting to hit it and quit it. Having my ass grabbed by strangers at bars/clubs.
I can’t really call this type of attention ’special’.
People have offered to do things for me that were rather large tasks. I accepted because I thought, “wow, what a generous offer.” I realize after the fact, that most of those people were doing so because they wanted to sleep with me. When I declined, they used what they just did for me, against me. Nice people, huh?
I hate this city.
Sorry, I’m just ranting now.
I haven’t changed my behavior much because of this attention because I’m not doing anything wrong.
I’ve always been a conservative dresser, so it’s not like I go out in public looking like a street hooker.
I don’t lead anyone on. I don’t give any signs that I’m interested in sleeping with them.
I realize though, that some men/women will think you’re flirting with them if you just shoot them a smile.
There are few who actually take the time to get to know me and appreciate what is deeper within me rather than outward appearance. I love and respect people who do this. Others just go off of their assumptions. I try not to let it bother me. It’s their problem, not mine.