A bit of both, probably.
A) When you came in during the wis.dm shutdown, we were quite unprepared for the mass migration. So, we had to mod a lot, because the wis.dmers didn’t know the ways of the site and we didn’t do a good job of explaining it in the beginning. Between that and coming from a site with no moderation, I’m sure that was frustrating as hell and inspired a lot of animosity towards moderation in general.
B) Many people take moderation a bit personally when they first start. After they’ve been around a while and see that it affects everyone, they relax a bit.