Of the males I’ve known in my family and circle of acquaintances, the answer is yes. It sounds so shallow but for some reason it happens, mostly cheating followe by discovery and then divorce. I hate the lip service people give each other about accepting this and that and how other qualities of a person are so important when I hear from their lips to others what they really think.
Me, I learned first hand years ago when I had gone from about 95lbs to 110 and my then partner told me he loved me but no longer was in love with me and the first thing out of his mouth was, “you’re not the girl I first met and I’m worried about your health, about you becoming obese.” That kind of killed it for me and him, I learned even the most loving and faithful person can lose it for you if you “get fat”.
As humiliated as I was, I did learn the world is not going to be PC just because I want them to be and no amount of me telling a person what should be acceptable to them was going to change how they felt so I vowed never to let myself go again and just rule out one less pain in the ass irritation. Men lie to women about their looks and women lie to men about their but you know what, from what I’ve seen the women take it in stride and have a greater tolerance and hold out on the love than the men. Sorry guys, you suck a lot of times.
Does this hurt me? Oh hell yes because I have age creeping on my looks, am single wanting to be remarried and in competition with women in their late 20’s and early 30’s just coming out of their first divorces all optimistic and energized for the game like I once was. Yup, life’s a bitch.