A couple are never or almost never going to be totally in synch about sexual desires. Sometimes I might be in the mood and my s/o isn’t etc. My s/o really likes the orgasms from oral sex and she knows I like doing it and watching her get off. I take it as a positive thing that even if I’m not really in the mood, I still take care of her pleasure. What’s your take on this? My phrasing of this really sucks, but I think you can see where I’m headed. Should it be ok that she uses me for the big O? She does a lot for me, so it’s not anything I mind.