The way I see it theres only one reason a man would want to research intimacy with a girl in mind: he wants to get intimate with her. I will give you some generally good advice, based on my own experience as a boyfriend, and watching my friend as a pimp. Look her dead in the eye, think about what you want her to do (kiss you, hold your hand, go to the other room with you etc), and say her name, as you have your standard conversations about whatever. Be as up front as she is willing to receive you being. If you are straightforward, its like a game that you can play to say hey lets be romantic, I insist, and its fun. If she’s not digging it then forget it.