Porn has changed immensely in the last 30 years.
When I was a teenager the actors were all primarily ‘real’ people, not centerfold material, cosmetically enhanced characatures of themselves.
Every woman could feel just as sexy as they they were not competing with such hardcore fantasy females.
I do think a lot of women feel ‘less than’ with the advent of the modern images of perfect fantasy female flesh.
And, rightfully so, in the sense, that many men do become addicted to these hyper glam images.
No woman wants to feel they are competing for a partners interest or sexual affection against impossibly distorted standards.
Nor should she.