i had been dating my ex boyfriend for a year when another guy i was friends with came into the picture, and while i wouldn’t say i was in love with him, my feelings for him were stronger than they were for my then-boyfriend, who i did think i was in love with at the time. it ruined our relationship, obviously. i have always regretted it, even though i know i am happier now than i was then, so in the end everything worked out well and i’m glad it ended when it did, just not happy about how it ended. i broke his heart…it was stupid and inconsiderate of me and i don’t know why i did it instead of just breaking up with him. i guess because the new guy had a girlfriend too so there was no point. it was a really ugly situation.