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Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were taken?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907points) April 14th, 2010
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What did you do about it? Are you still with that person? Just curious, nothing to do with me.

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Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I left the person I was married to to be with the one I fell in love with.

tranquilsea's avatar

No, I haven’t. Anytime any feelings have started to arise I cut off contact. I love my hubby too much to even take one step down that road.

wonderingwhy's avatar

Sort of. I’ve ended a relationship because of someone I was in love with, but I had been in love with her prior to the beginning of the relationship. The person I ended it with I, not unexpectedly, lost touch with for a while but as of today we’ve reconnected and talk every now and then. The person I was in love with, I still love dearly, and is my closest friend to this day.

deni's avatar

i had been dating my ex boyfriend for a year when another guy i was friends with came into the picture, and while i wouldn’t say i was in love with him, my feelings for him were stronger than they were for my then-boyfriend, who i did think i was in love with at the time. it ruined our relationship, obviously. i have always regretted it, even though i know i am happier now than i was then, so in the end everything worked out well and i’m glad it ended when it did, just not happy about how it ended. i broke his heart…it was stupid and inconsiderate of me and i don’t know why i did it instead of just breaking up with him. i guess because the new guy had a girlfriend too so there was no point. it was a really ugly situation.

Sophief's avatar

Well I don’t know if you would call it taken, but I guess, maybe. I was living with someone, but our relationship ended a few month before I met my current s/o. I dated him for a year, while still living with my ex. He moved on the sofa and we both had our different lives. Though I never actually said I was seeing someone.

JeanPaulSartre's avatar

I left the person I was married to to be with the one I fell in love with. Oh Simone already said that…

slick44's avatar

Yes i have, the results were not good.:(

downtide's avatar

Yes, but I’m also still in love with, and still married to, the person I married.

Ponderer983's avatar

Not to the point of falling in love, because if I am with someone, I wouldn’t let me feelings get that far, as long as things are fine in the current relationship. I keep them at arms length to avoid complicating my already complicated life.

evandad's avatar

A few times

slick44's avatar

It broke up a longtime friendship. Now no one is happy.

MorenoMelissa1's avatar

Yes I was ounce with a man who was abusive to me and he made me feel lower than dirt. Rafael came into my life as a friend and he helped to get the courage to leave the other man. Now I am with rafael and I couldn’t be happier, he has helped me to find my confidence and see how great a person that I am. :)

Scooby's avatar

Many, many times, It was usually just lust not love but I was a lot younger then so it doesn’t really count! :-/

broncosgirl's avatar

yes. I was with a guy for six years and I fell in love with a mutual friend of ours (yikes!). I am with that man now and I am happier than ever. Deciding to be with him was the best decision I’ve ever made. Sometimes you have to do what is best for yourself!

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