You know what….I think teenagers can understand, and feel love even stronger than adults in some respects. For the following reasons:
1. The first time you fall in love you don’t have any walls built up around you to protect yourself. You trust your partner more, and you let yourself fall for them harder. You don’t know what heartbreak really is, you don’t know how much it hurts, so you don’t hold back, AND you don’t play as many games to “keep on top” in the relationship.
2. You have less responsibility in life, therefore you can let your heart lead the way, and your brain doesn’t have to logically way up why, or why not you should be with someone. With the exception of physical attraction, teenagers fall for the person….The “is he going to be a good provider” bullshit hasn’t kicked in yet.
3. When you are with someone as a teenager, and you are experiencing those feelings for the first time, it completely consumes you. That person means absolutely everything to you, the “adult notion” that time heals all, doesn’t occur to you yet, because you haven’t had time yet. Your partner breaking up with you is probably the first adult issue you have had to deal with, you have no experience to draw from to help you through your feelings. I think we can all agree, that first heartbreak hurts the most. You feel like you are going to die, and you don’t see how you will ever love anyone ever again.
Teenage love maybe less complicated, it may not entail sacrifice, it may not require work…..But I think the intensity of those feelings makes up for all of that. I think we learn what love the feeling is in our teens, and we learn what love the commitment is when we are adults. Two different lessons, one is no more important than the other.