@Sueanne_Tremendous, have you stooped to trolling on Fluther? ;-)

kevbo Sadly, yes. Naw…just curious. I had never really thought about it but this friend of mine said the a number of her friends had played around with women at one time or another. That said, ladies you can hit me up at sueanne.tredecka….oh I could never stoop that low. PM me instead! Hehehe

My hormones kicked in for the first time when I was 12.5 and at an all-girls summer camp. I fell madly in love with one of the counselors (female) but had no clue. When I returned to school in the fall, I discovered that I was interested only in boys.

I have, had an on going thing with my best friend, until she died. it was great. and my husband was fine with it.

@gailcalled I think that may be pretty common in young girls. I remember an old boss who told me she had a crush on a camp councilor when she was young.

@slick44 Sound like a very nice arrangement. Very sorry that you lost her.

I’m mostly straight. 99% of my interest is in the male of the species. However, I did (once upon a time in band camp in my youth) date a couple different women. While it never got past handholding (awww), I would not have been disappointed if it had.

What I learned was that while I understand guys fairly well, I’m still about fifteen years old when it comes to dating women. I have no idea how to act or how to be attractive to them. I just know that every now and then, one looks very very nice. :)

@Sueanne_Tremendous…. thank you. I am very sorry as well. she was indeed my best friend in every way. Maybe thats why we connected.

Yes

I went to a gay bar with one of my gay male friends, nothing unusual for us. I was extremely attracted to this one girl, I seem to have a specific type when it comes to attraction to women. I was in the bathroom when approached by a girl and we began chatting..she immediately became turned off when I said I was straight. I didn’t know what I really wanted from her. I think it’s sort of rude to expect someone who only likes women to try it out just for someone elses sake.
It did make me hate saying “I’m straight” because I have felt attraction to women in the past and have always been curious. But, I’m married to a man now lol

No, it’s never happened. I’ve been hit on by women before and I say (almost) the same thing I say to men I’m not attracted to: “Thank you, I’m very flattered, but…”

I have not ever acted on it, but I have absolutely thought about it and if the right opportunity came along I would probably…

No I have never experimented and I’ve never really thought about it.
I think I got hit on kinda sorta once, but I’m still not sure.

I would like to try it but, not with those lesbians that look like almost a man, you know, someone hot that doesn’t try to cover up the boobs, I’m curious to know why you had to decline the offer to hook up?

I’m pretty sure about my heterosexuality, but there’s something alluring about having a relationship with another women for me. Since I have a boyfriend now I haven’t acted on that, but dating a woman doesn’t seem to be completely out of the picture for me. So far the only experimentation I’ve had has been kissing one of my female friends kind of as a joke when we were both drunk.

I did the 12 yr. old makeout thing with a friend about 100 years ago, lol
Some pretty heavy exploration.

But otherwise, no.

I’m hetero all the way.

At one point I thought I was straight. Does that count? I used to flirt with gay girls, but most would never give a straight girl any play. I wanted to experiment and I think they knew it. But now I’ve been married to another woman for almost 9 years. Hmm.

I’m straight but kind of curious. Since I’ve got a really steady relationship with my boyfriend, I don’t really expect to get a chance for experimentation but if I did:
~Would like openly feminine and strong women
~Am not excited by the vagina, but am more excited about all the rest of the body

I guess I would end up being like this: http://www.gwscomic.com/GWS724.html

i had a couple of relationships with women. I feel closer to men. sexually.

I’ve experimented sexually with a girl. I went through a “confused” stage in my early teens until I decided that I don’t “have” to be anything in particular. Now I just base my feelings (sexually and emotionally) on the eprson rather than their gender.

About 10 years ago I was dating someone that wanted me to try it. There was no way I could touch her, she kissed me, touched my breasts, but the minute she touched me down below I felt sick. The relationship ended with the man and sadly with the girl. I have never had desires to play with something I already have. I like men far too much and nothing beats having a mans hands on you and a nice hard cock inside.

No, I’ve never felt the slightest bit of interest – although I do tend to get hit on a lot by women (and men). I think it’s the profession I’m in, where many of the people are very open to bi-loving.

(Plus, my heart has belonged to someone for the past three years.)

Should I be offended that no women have ever hit on me (to my knowledge)?

I have never fully ( and i say fully) understood lesbian women. I totally understand how 2 women can live together and be there for each other mentally and spiritually. But physically I cant wrap my head around it. I have to have a mans body. A mans penis. Everything physical about a man, but I wish he had a womans spirituality, friendship, commitment.etc. Im sure that doesnt make sense but thats how I feel.

well that can be fixed, by a woman with a strap-on

@Ludy Though I’ve never experienced one, I would make the argument it lacks the warmth and “grow in your hand” ability. There’s something about making a man’s penis feel good to him that is very exciting.

I’m sure in a lesbian relationship, you can make other body parts feel good instead. And that’s why I would be curious. But I don’t think I could give up those traits of the actual male penis for good.

Gloria Steinem said, memorably, “A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.”

Let me recount to you the tale of nikipedia’s Lesbian New Year’s Eve:

One Near Year’s, my good (female) friend and I found ourselves without any gentleman friends, so we resolved to be each other’s stroke-of-midnight kiss. Much celebratory alcohol was imbibed and when midnight hit we had a nice kiss between friends.

In retrospect I think perhaps I falsely advertised myself, because a few drinks later I was engaged in conversation with a girl I’d never met before, and she also kissed me. At some point (the details are fuzzy) we exchanged numbers, and the next morning she texted me something about hanging out.

Thinking she was interested in having a new friend, I suggested we have dinner. It wasn’t until I picked her up and saw how dressed up she was that I realized dinner meant… dinner.

So we ate Thai food, I paid, she kissed me good night, and my journey to the “other side” was over. (Mostly.)

@gailcalled That is EXACTLY what happened to me down to the tiniest detail LOL !! The counselor was sweet, caring, played the guitar for the girls and gay. I think she’s the one who rescued me from drowning.
Other than that: Nope.