There aren’t really any do’s and dont’s of living with my fiancĂ©.
We help each other out. There isn’t anything that either one of us does that the other doesn’t do. (Well except maybe the laundry because I love doing laundry. Oh and making the bed.)
I don’t really think that you need to go by what anyone else says. Each relationship dynamic is different. Each relationship is different. Just go with the flow and trust your gut.
Honestly if a guy left the toilet seat up, it really wouldn’t bother me, but as you can see it bothers others. Lots of the women said “bring flowers” or “buy her things ever now and again” but really.. that’s not even close to being important to me or even wanted by me.
The only real important answers I’ve seen on this thread have one word in common: Communication. Communicate effectively and all will be well.