@dutchbrossis – Sure.
I have had the opportunity to work around strippers and get to know strippers. On a professional level, doing commercials for strip clubs.
The Hollywood version makes them college students or hookers. Some of that is sort of true. It’s usually some place in between.
It is a social business, it is a job but part of that job is being part of the party. It translates to the constant “temptation” to take drugs and to make a good fast buck selling your ass.
Besides all the “studs” that want you, you being able to take your pick.
After spending some time in the dressing room of a strip club, I was turned off (in a way). Just like any locker room, the athletes are sweaty and smelly.
They tend to be a bit hard edged and arrogant ( I don’t blame them) from having their asses kissed all the time.
The cub owner (task master) wanting them to work all the time, naturally causing the girls to become part of it all.
Just like if you worked at a dance club or a bar. You tend to socialize with your co workers and the ones that hang around till closing.
In the sex business that translates to getting high, drinking and getting laid. Hey, girls just want to have fun too. ;-)
Part of the lifestyle where “easy” money and sexuality is what it is about. Girls that have boyfriends, those guys are usually hanging around.
They know, either they are around and their girl goes home with them or they take the risk of their girl being tempted by other, fresh, possibilities.
I am not interested in having to be so involved in HER job. Just to have and keep her.
Do date yes, threesomes are to be expected as plenty of the ladies are bi-sexual. Relationship? Rough way to “try” to developer trust.
For the RARE few that actually manage it as a job. Good for you.
But then again, any time the opportunity to get money for “appreciation” of their body is the job.