@jleslie @Seek_Kolinahr
Yes, as used, I find the use of “Church” ironic.
Further, the rules of many religions like, say, Christianity and Islam direct the believers to witness their faith – which I believe means making their views known to others – believers and non-believers alike. Some denominations of Christians see the work of converting people as a “Must do” not a “May do.”
So to say, “It’s a private, personal matter” kind of flies in the face of it, don’t you think? And I know there’s that uniquely American point of view that says, “Well I’ll follow the tenants of the religion that suit me, but if they ask me to do things that seem too intrusive, or time consuming or costly then I will exercise my God-given right [intended irony] to opt out.”
But still. It’s silly, isn’t it? If you don’t really believe in it and just go to church for the pot lucks, okay, that I can see.
But to say it’s religion and think you can pick and choose – it’s just weird! “Oh, I don’t want to tithe, I’m saving up for vacation.” “I know it’s TECHNICALLY adultery but he was in a bad marriage…” “Yes, I keep the sabbath holy. I even go to the early service so I can be back in time for kick off!” There is no moral compass if you keep it secret and opt out of whatever you don’t like.
Okay, I’m ranting. Sorry.