I will say that I think it’s understandable the basic feeling of “my boyfriend is staring at naked women for an hour a day” and to feel that maybe he compares you to them. but in reality he probably doesn’t. when i watch porn, which isn’t often but fairly often, i never ever ever think that i would want any penis in it to replace my boyfriend, ya know? that would be silly. because that is all porn is—penis, vagina, and usually a girl with too much makeup on. there is nothing emotional about it. your boyfriend, my boyfriend, is way more than just a penis. there are emotions and tons of love and having sex i dont think can even be compared to a video of strangers. when you really think about it, its kinda immature. it’ll never replace you. but really you just need to talk to him about it. i was concerned about this one day when my boyfriend pointed out his collection to me (which was only a few DVDs, had it been a thousand i would have probably been a little more “ehhh”) but still, it helped a ton.
that being said, you really should work on having an orgasm. for the first 3 months my boyfriend and i were together, we had a lot of sex and i never had an orgasm. i just didn’t care…it’s a lot of work for me to orgasm during sex and many times he would come and i just didn’t want to exert the effort to tell him to finish the job because it wasn’t that important to me, until i said “enough is enough” and we talked about it, probably literally for 5 hours. then everything changed…sex wasn’t just about him coming anymore, it was a joint effort, and now when he makes me orgasm his face lights up like a little kid on christmas. it has changed our relationship and sex in a way i’ve never experienced before. seriously. try it. and if your boyfriend wont work with you in the sack and do what you need to orgasm then i would consider him to be not worth being with.