We never speak of our feelings. We never inquire after someone else’s except in the pro forma way that must always be answered, “fine.” We work hard—all the time, and we never let silly things like depression or bad luck get in our way. We are capable of forming our own lives. Not doing so is an unpardonable weakness.
This is all a serious business. We owe it to our parents and children. We should not be a burden on anyone. We carry our own weight. We are never satisfied. There is always more to do before we rest. In fact, we believe we’ll have all the rest we need once we’re dead. We work all the time, never breaking to be entertained, God forbid at a comedy club!
We are Puritans, and we do not approve of happiness.