I think it doesn’t matter what I think – The only thing that matters is what is important to the two of you.
By the way, I once had a fiance visa to go to Australia and meet a man I had only known by letters. A month before I was supposed to go, I met the love of my life, and we have now been married for 35 years. I don’t know what happened to my Australian fiance, after I returned the money he had sent me for my travel ticket.