@YARNLADY With sincere respect, baloney. Unless you are put in prison, enslaved or disabled by previous mistakes, there is always the opportunity to start over. There are too many examples of this fact to ignore it. There is no guarantee in life. Every minute that you survive is success. Every minute that you thrive is a bonus. So sorry, but all of the trappings of civilization do not cancel out the truth of existence. Nobody can promise anybody long life and prosperity. We achieve those things with our wits, our ambition and a dose of good fortune. Our mileau changes, we adapt or disappear. We gain wealth, we lose it. We are healthy, we get a bad diagnosis. It is all part of the deal. Everyday of our lives is an act in a great play,which we wind up having to write ourselves. Speaking for myself, I have made more “new starts” than I choose to reveal. So what? I am still here. And I am not some pathetic survivor either. Given the previous, you would be surprised. So, in summary, I humbly disagree.