Wow, Flutherites seem a bit hasty with the love… how can you possibly fall in love with someone within hours, a few days, a week? You can’t fully know a person that quickly. I take love very seriously. I do not believe in fancying myself in love, or telling someone I love him, unless I’m absolutely certain. Being absolutely certain includes fully understanding his character, sharing life experiences together, proving that he is worthy of my love, making it through trials together, not being able to visualize myself with anyone else, knowing I want to spend my life with him. I’m sorry, this just can’t happen in a matter of days.
I’ve made mistakes in the past, and I’ve learned that love isn’t created on a whim. You might fall for someone fast and hard, but the rush can wear off. Real, strong, enduring love is the kind that is built and worked for, rather than just a sudden flood of emotion for a person you scarcely know. Real life isn’t like Disney movies.