I thought I was well on my way to being with someone I care for again, but I don’t really know what’s been going on.
We email back and forth all day while we’re at work, and Thursday he had a lot of call-outs so we didn’t really talk. Friday I heard nothing all day. Saturday I got one text saying something about he’s been leaving his phone at home, I replied with something saying that I was sorry for bugging him, and I got a response that said “no bug, just family stuff.” I sent about 2–3 over several hours just saying I was thinking about him and my typical “good night” text. Then yesterday, sent one in the morning. Last night I had a big fight with a roommate which sent me into a panic attack, and I tried calling him, got voicemail. Then I texted and asked him to call me at some point… I needed someone to talk to. Nothing. Then this morning, I emailed him like always, and after an hour, had no response. So I sent an email that said this really isn’t like him, which is concerning me that something not good is going on. I said that if it was life, he could talk to me if he needed someone. I also said that if it was me, he should just tell me, although I thought we’d been going in a good direction so I’d be confused if that was the case.
I’ve still heard nothing back. I don’t know what else to do. We both have said that we really like each other, and we’re being careful to take things slowly, and then out of nowhere I don’t hear from him for a couple of days, whereas we’d been in some form of contact every day for several weeks now.
I’m not sure if I should take it personally or not… I’m really confused, and I’m surprised to find myself a little more sad than I expected.