I am a widow, but other than the fact that I do not wish anyone dead – I do not mourn my late husband. We had been separated for several years prior to his death & we were separated because he was emotionally abusive (we were still married because I simply did not have the funds to divorce him). I have been married 3 times. The first marriage was great & he died much too young. The other 2 marriages were mistakes & it took marrying my last husband for me to realize that there are worse things than being alone. Marriage is great when both partners make the effort to keep it working, but one person cannot make a marriage work.