@DarlingRhadamanthus I beg to differ, although the examples below go in the opposite direction. My SO mentioned that he prefers women with short hair. I eventually cut my long locks off and am elated with the results. (It could always be grown back.)
He also mentioned that he saw no reason to have highlights, but if it was something that brought personal satisfaction, to please do so. I’ve given them up for now. I love not having to spend the 1–2 hours in the salon for what I consider a waste of money, but I do miss the look and may go back to it. I chalk it up to vanity.
He said that he likes the look of a woman who wears glasses. I’ve stopped wearing contacts and adore the low-maintenance aspect, plus not having to throw empty plastic saline solution bottles into the trash.
He mentioned once that there was no need to wear high heels. Maybe it is because he is about an inch taller than me. Because I’ve never enjoyed wearing them, I’ve given away all pairs of heels except for two, which would only be worn at a special occasion. I have no issue appearing taller than he is. Otherwise, I love wearing flats.
All of the above can be changed. Should he ever suggest that I alter my body shape in some artificial way, then the answer would be ‘no’. And I’d bet my life that he never would.