I have used exactly the one you mentioned, I’ve tried all kinds of ‘natural’ cleansers, harsh chemical ones, etc. If your skin feels dry and tight after washing it, you’re telling it to increase oil production to protect itself. It becomes a shitty cycle of hell pimples. I settled on the olive oil scrub after trying all those products and nothing worked well for my skin, I just ended up spending hundreds of dollars on a bunch of crap that made my face worse. I threw everything out and started over, within a week my face was moisturized, less oily, felt better after a day out even with makeup and began to balance out. I also use it on my chest and neck in the shower because of it’s moisturizing effects, and sometimes my feet knees and elbows where my skin dries out.
I only use astringent if my face is very oily or sweaty and dirty, like after working out. I never use it as a regular product.
I believe the cleanser I use is Aveeno, very mild, and only used in the morning to remove all the oil from overnight that I have been rubbing into my face and pillow. It’s label has been worn off, I know it by sight only now – I use that little.
Seriously, try it. Keep a cleanser, use the scrub and tough it out for a week or two, it’s worked for me and a bunch of my friends of varying skin types. Hasn’t failed us yet, I’d be surprised if it didn’t work for you. But remember, extra fine sugar, extra virgin olive oil.