I can tell you from experience, don’t ask a unknown looking person if they are a man or a woman. I had to because she sounded like a man, and looked like one too, but I thought wrong.
@shego I actually rather enjoy being asked if I’m a man or a woman. I always just respond “What do you think?” and nod thoughtfully at whatever they say.
@shego this awkwardness extends to children. I did NOT ask but found the ” young lady” I told to sit down [during a substitute teaching gig] was a boy and he burst into tears.
A woman should never ask a man “Does this [item of clothing] make me look fat?” He will either lie, or he will tell the truth. Either way, it won’t necessarily make you feel better.
To one’s Mother/Grandmother : “So, your orgasms, good? Go on give me the delicious details? Oh & do you spit or swallow? I asked Dad/Grandad but he wouldn’t tell.”
What is the meaning of life? asked myself that once and sat around the house for a month tryin to figure it out. that and the best answer your ever likely to get is…42.