I think being void of love is a disaster waiting to happen. A Charles Mansion type, probably is void of love, cold as ice and others like him. Absence of love, spawns fear. Fear is torment that lives in the lives of many. Fear can lead to the lust of power, rape, murder, etc. Love must exist if you are wanting to live a good life and contribute to this world. You choose. Even if a man doesn’t have love for a woman he may have love for golf, his co-workers, his neighbor, etc. but love in some form must exist, or your life will create pain. Invent your own definition of Love. I think most of us have to. Love in childhood is not always a good Love, and often it is not satisfying as we grow up. Childhood love is often conditional. “If you do this or that, I Love you”. If you fit in the circle you are special, loved, etc.At some point in our adult life, we must all define love as we see it, as we can relate to it. If one has never felt love, create your own, or be void of it. It’s a choice. Start with the visual of what you see. Like a beautiful sunset, a calm lake, a bird building it’s nest. If you feel amazed, at peace, entertained, etc, it is a part of love. Continue to explore all the feeling or visions, that you think might be love, and go with that. Comfort can be love, laughter can be love, giving, seeing, touching, wanting. It’s your world now. Make up your own feelings of Love, but let it be love you seek, not coldness. It’s a great journey and it’s yours. Do not go by the past if the past has not been good to you, rather, learn what NOT to feel, and what is good, and that could be your belief in love. God’s speed, my friend.