I think ignoring is best. Ironically I’ve been doing this a lot to a handful of people recently and finding that I am ok and better off without those people in my life. some were “close friends” but apparently it was only from my point of view that I held them so high. Disecting situations and looking back how everything went from the start of our relationship or friendship up to this point and how they are now especially I realize I was the blind one and being very naive.
Having friends and close people in your life are important I suppose, or atleast 1 or 2 people to be able to talk to, confide in and share things with but it is very important to be able to be content on your own and be able to happy alone if need be. In the end I realize which is absolutely true for everyone.. the ONLY person you can always 100% count on is yourself and YOU have to make that happen for YOU. We come into this world born alone(then handed off to mom of course) and we all die ALONE. As far as ignoring like I said i believe that best. I am very into honesty aswell as @Coloma was stating BUT if this is just going to brew an argument, create drama and further drag on the ending of a relationship with you and that person if that is what you want then I do not see a point. I used to be notorious for giving many chances and being very forgiving.. and now eh.. not so much anymore. After your trust gets broken in various ways (for me) anyway it makes me a stronger person mentally and emotionally and you begin to think everyone is going to just let you down or not stick around for the longhaul anyway so you choose not to let anyone new in that’d be friends or more, because you think that even if they say theyre not going to leave they end up at some point doing that anyway down the line. (this is again for me personally). However cutting people off and hermitting yourself is not too healthy either I realize. But sometimes you need that for awhile to get your mind right and still you can always choose to keep your guard up with whatever path you choose.. with or WITHOUT people or (those) people.
Also if youre vulnerable and naive like I have been at times (IN THE PAST) if you think a discussion and confrontation is necessary with this person who has screwed you over many, many times in the past (in whatever way), I’d suggest not and just keep on, keeping on and just stick with forgetting them if possible and ignoring them, bc you will just end up getting sucked back in and if it’s a huge argument and doesnt turn out that way you will just add more bullshit onto your own inner thoughts and feelings with the stress, disgust, hurt, etc.It takes a lot for me cut someone out of my life too and before very recently up unitl the last couple of months I had only done that officially to a couple people, but apparently I am realizing that i tend to attract assholes in every form.I get and don’t get why the reasons for this.
(Hope all this makes sense, it does to me perfectly anyway lol)