No, that would not be a relationship I would want/ or could be in. I have to have shared goals and plans with my partner.
For instance, with my partner, we picked a place where he could work on movies and I could work in the mental health field. Anywhere we thought to live we considered each others’ needs. It was never an untimatum because we both took into account the fact that if we wanted to be together we needed to pick a place that would help us work towards our goals. After 2 years, we have both found our home (took hubby a little longer than I) and both of our professional and personal needs are met. What could be better? It’s definitely hepled with a happy relationship.