Oh, come on! You mean you come home and sit in an absolute blank room everyday? What do you do with your time? What do you do with your friends?
Don’t feel discouraged. Every school has your class of overachievers – the one’s that are in every club/sport that the school offers, get all A’s in the honor’s tract, already have their way-paid through college and basically already have their life cut out for them. If you’re not one of these kids, don’t worry, no one is that picture perfect. Everyone has their problems and everyone has their obstacles, as well as strengths and weaknesses, as well as journey in life. Everyone works at a different pace as far as “finding oneself” goes. You have to fall somewhere in the scheme of things, it’s really just a matter of finding it.
You may not know where that somewhere is just now but perhaps one day you will. I know people in their 40’s still in college because they just dont know what they want out of life, how to get where they want to be, or they dont even know where they’re supposed to be.
My advice is to just live your life. When you’re ready, you will find your place and you will make your own advancements. In the meantime, why dont you try starting small somewhere? Volunteer somewhere – homeless shelter, animal shelter, hospital, daycare, health centers? Pick up a new hobby – ride bike, go jogging, play ultimate Frisbee, go hiking, tennis, read books, collect a certain item? Knit?
Perhaps getting a part-time job somewhere might not be a bad idea – you may meet a new circle of people and you may get some new insight on what to do with your life next. Someone or something there may inspire your next move. Who knows, be optimistic about it.