I’ve never said it to any woman that I can recall. I think that everyone I’ve made love to has had pretty much the same tightness, except one. She was very loose, which was too bad because she was the only woman I ever slept with who liked sex as much as I do. She was also the first woman who came on to me, instead of me having to pursue.
I was pretty much an idiot in those days (which is not to say I have changed). I didn’t really respect her because she came on to me. So I dropped her. In my defense, I couldn’t imagine why someone would come on to me in those days, so I figured there must be something wrong with her that she didn’t treat me like shit like every other woman did.
Every other woman being my first love who ditched me, making me feel worse than I’d ever felt in life, and the second one, who was a lesbian and didn’t really want anything to do with me afterwards. I don’t know why she even wanted to do it in the first place. Hmmm. Come to think of it, she was pretty tight. But I didn’t know that then. She was awfully enthusiastic for a lesbian, too.
Anyway, if there were do-overs, I would not turn away a woman because she liked me and was enthusiastic about being with me. I learned my lesson on that one. In my life, sex has been somewhat sparse. Maybe that’s why I don’t know from tight.