Kind of but it was rather a large thing and not exactly a habit or trait either. I unknowingly (yeah I know, it seems nigh impossible that I did it unaware that I was doing it, but believe me, I had no clue until later) home wrecked the relationship she was in prior to my attempt to get with her. She didn’t really have a clue that I did homewreck her relationship either and for awhile during which time I was flirting with her, it seemed like we’d be able to hit it off.
However, while we were hanging out with some friends, the discussion of home wrecking was brought up and it clicked in my head what I had done. Apparently it clicked for her too, either she saw guilt on my face (I wasn’t too good at hiding emotions then) and put one and one together, or it clicked in her head that I had home wrecked her former relationship the same time it clicked for me what I had done.
We’re little more than acquaintances now. She’s back with the former boyfriend, and I’m happy for her, I guess I think I understand there are things in life that you love but you just gotta let go of.
Eventually I also discovered that locking myself in a relationship that I am content with and can settle down makes me prone to suicidal thoughts and behavior (weird) when I hooked up with another gal later on, so I guess it was for the better that I didn’t hook up with her.