@FluffyChicken While I was single, it wasn’t a big deal since I had no interest in casual sex. The deployment was a bit harder, but we still did other things to take care of that aspect of our marriage. ;)
@Seaofclouds I am not sure right now if I’m interested in casual sex, considering my emotional state. I think I mostly miss sex with a certain someone. But I find myself horny pretty much constantly now that I’m single. sooooo frustrating.
It’s been about 4 or 5 years. My partner lost her sex-drive after all her initial Lupus treatments. Before, and during that, I had brain tumors and was not supposed to do anything that got my blood pumping too fast.
Currently, it can be difficult for me at times (I have a rather high libido); but I manage to survive.
About 2 months. A relationship had just ended and it was two months before I was back in a relationship again. I’ve been in the same relationship since.
I’ve been in a relationship since I first had intercourse, but we were doing the long distance thing for about a year, so there were a few months here and there where we didn’t have sex.
About a year, directly after the loss of virginity. My first time was ghastly, so I didn’t really even want sex for quite some time. Between relationships, it was typically only a couple of months, and I would just make out with my BOB. =0)
About a year and a few months—after my first lover broke up with me. We had been together for a year and a half or so. It was pretty hellish. Later on there were periods of months where I didn’t get any. I was married at that time. It was a problem. Sometimes, when you are not feeling the love, your desire disappears, too.
Over 7 long years, I stopped dating because someone I was dating cheated on me and I found I had trust issues when I tried to date so I took a break but my short break just kept going it just became easy not dating that I didn’t go back to dating for 7 years.