Most of the time I either don’t notice, or chalk it up to a life situation, like this jelly we might or might not be discussing on this thread.
However, I have gotten quite upset about a couple of Jellies’ departures before—I have believed one left because of something I said and I still am not sure if that is or isn’t the case. I probably will always have a twinge of guilt until I learn different. I might not even be the reason, but with that jelly gone, there’s no way to find out.
What I don’t like is when I know a Jelly left because they were being bullied or haggled by another Jelly. When I know that’s the reason, then yes, I get upset because I feel helpless.