Wait a minute… your beef was with [old broad who shall not be named]? Ye gods. That’s like an eighth-grader walking into a kindergarten class and complaining about being “bullied”. That [old broad who shall not be named] is one of the nicest people on this site! (Not that I’m comparing [old broad who shall not be named] to a kindergartner in anything but demeanor – and I mean that in the nicest way, as I’m sure she already knows. And likely would agree with.)
So she didn’t like something you said, and called you out on it. It’s what we do here. She didn’t “attack you”; she said you did a wicked thing – which seems to be true, according to your own statement – and she asked you to refrain from doing that. Pleasant as pleasant can be, as is her wont.
You were the one getting all hateful. And if you want to eat a spider to spite her (to spider?), then I’m sure she’d laugh louder and longer than anyone at the thought of you doing that “to get back at her”. Bon appetit!