@Neizvestnaya I suppose it depends on what you mean when you say “hitting on.” In any case, there seem to be a couple of reasonable generalizations to make from your experience. Either all men are ready to fool around, or you attract men who are more willing to fool around with women who aren’t their wives.
Maybe all men are dogs. I’ve heard that many times from women. I’ve heard it from men, too. The thing is, if that is the behavior we expect, that is the behavior we will get. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy. But the prophecy frees both frees men from personal responsibility because they know it’s what women expect, and it also frees women from having to be very defensive because they tell themselves that’s just the way it is, and they can’t help it if they can’t defend themselves.
Given the numbers on infidelity, I’d say there’s a surprising number of dogs out there, all around. And yet, there are many who aren’t, as well. Some of whom honestly like others and are willing to tell them so without needing to provide pressure for things to go further.