@BaileyMarie Why did you not know what was going on, did you not have any idea what intercourse was at the time? I am not saying this is your fault in any way, he took advantage of you, but at 16 I would think you would know what was going on. I also think at 16 I can completely understand not knowing how to stop what is happening, and not expecting to suddenly have someone having forceable sex with you. He had an incredible advantage over you being 19/20, as you probably realize now just being 18 yourself and having more awareness than when you were 16. This is exactly why there are statutory rape laws.
Too horny is bullshit. Good men, and by 20 he certainly should know better, make sure the woman/partner is ok with going further. If you were nervous you were not responding in a way that tells him you are ready, and he just did not care.
Most men will not do something like this, don’t let the event make you too untrusting, or feel less powerful. That guy was a fuckhead, it has nothing to do with anything you did. And, please don’t let the label statutory rape make you feel victimized forever. I know some people might be upset with me for saying this, but I know many people who had things like this happened, and the ones who treat the event like a crappy thing that happened but move forward do much better than those who seem to dwell on the event and label themselves as being a rape victim. I think it is a good idea to tell your parents and/or get some therapy, but if the therapist is making you feel worse instead of better change therapists. There are some scary therapists out there and some great ones, sometimes you need to shop around.
This is actually more than just statutory rape, because it was nowhere close to consensual.