The interesting thing is that there are women who like letting a man use them like that, on occasion. They get off on the experience they are giving the man and also on the idea that they are willingly giving themselves up to be used. I don’t think it means they actually think they are only fit to be used at all. It means they enjoy playing the role, at times. There is something about giving in to being overpowered, that, as long as it is your choice, can be extremely arousing. As long as you are in control of it. It is not at all arousing if it is being forced on you by someone you don’t trust.
And I think it can work both ways. People who enjoy playing the role of the user can also enjoy being the used. If they have a partner who knows how to work that angle. A woman who knows how to go both ways is, no doubt, a pretty exciting partner to the right person.