This is absurd. Are we at the point that we can only talk about sex with women who are also our spouses? Are we at the point where if we talk about sex with a woman who isn’t our spouse, then that means we are cheating? Are we at the point where if we talk to some woman who isn’t our spouse about sex that the next thing we find ourselves doing is shacking up in the No-tell Motel?
This is a joke! Americans are so uptight about sex. No wonder everyone hides in their rooms with internet porn instead of being an adult about it. It’s like the shame factor is through the roof. I’d say “grow up, America,” except I know 90% of the population disagrees with me on this issue.
Is it cheating? Not up to me to decide. That’s for you to decide. And if you can even ask this question, then I have to think you feel guilty. If you feel guilty, perhaps it’s because of what else you are thinking.
It’s not your job to watch the morals of this fellow. It’s your job to decide if you want anything to do with a married man who talks to other women about sex and doesn’t immediately run home and report to his wife that he has done so. You don’t want anything to do with him, really, do you? You don’t want to be a home wrecker, do you? Lord knows the next thing after sex talk is home wrecking. [rolls eyes] But if that’s how you think, then you should act accordingly. Myself, I think that’s utter nonsense.