@Ela No, I never hide anything I have bought from my husband. I can’t if I wanted to, he pays the bills. But, I don’t want or need to anyway. I agree a lot of men are unaware of all the spending their wives do, mostly because they just aren’t paying attention, some women take advantage of it more than their husband would probably “approve” of, but approve is not really the word I am searching for.
I am not saying at all that you are looking for it, I don’t even understand how you interpret what I am saying that way? I would think a suspicious person, or one obsessed with needing to know how much the ring is worth, or how many carats, would have something like that checked out right away. No one is accusing the bf/gf or spouse who wears the ring of questioning or being suspicious. At least not that I can tell from the answers above.
Saying someone finally found out, only means to me that the person probably assumed the ring is real, and later finds out its not. It doesn’t mean the subject came up before, not to me. Would you ever assume the ring is fake? I mean, I would if it is obviously a huge diamond and there is no possible way ever it could be afforded by the person. But, if it looked like an average engagement ring, I think most people would assume it is real.
I rather know it is fake, not have diamonds at all, or know it is real.