Three times a day? Enjoy it while you can. Same with sex every day. That’s a blessing that usually doesn’t keep on happening later on in life.
I don’t believe in sex addiction, and I’ve known a number of people in a group for sex addicts. I think the problem is when relationships get in trouble. That’s when men and sometimes women turn to masturbation to ease the pain. But these guys were masturbating continuously all day long. Not three times a day. All day.
I don’t think you need to worry about your bf. When you guys get together again, it will be all right. And also, it’s ok if he doesn’t ejaculate. Contrary to popular belief, guys don’t have to ejaculate in order to have a good time. Young guys think they do, and that’s what they’ll tell you. But as you age, you learn that there’s more to sex than ejaculation.
Don’t get me wrong. I love it and I am as goal oriented as the next guy, but I can also have fun without ejaculating, during those times that I just can’t do it again. Which doesn’t happen often, but does happen. All I need it more recovery time. And if I can only do it once a day instead of twice or three times, that’s ok. And if several days goes by in between, that usually means it’ll be more intense when it does happen.
But I have learned not to judge it. I has to happen this way or that way. I must ejaculate or it doesn’t count or wasn’t any good. That’s just not very helpful thinking. I can have a good deal more fun if I don’t judge it like that or put conditions on it.
You and your bf also can have more fun if you lose your preconceptions about how it is supposed to be. It will allow you to go longer or shorter, as you feel it. It will allow you to be ok with whatever happens. That’s good for a relationship, too.