Courtesy – I work in a professional office with professional and generally easy-going people. We deal with each other courteously, and because we work all around the world with people from all sorts of other cultures, we have to practice courtesy to avoid unnecessary flaps and upset.
Affection – We also have a certain affection for each other, which generally shows up in how we work together cooperatively.
Controlling – Depending on how the word is meant, even the boss doesn’t hold us on a tight rein. He lets us know where we have to be, what our objectives are, and lets us find our own way there as long as we act within broad policy parameters. But we have to always be conscious of those parameters (and sometimes write them, too).
Avoiding – I work like hell to avoid overseas travel.
Kindness – We’re solicitous of each others’ minor failings and shortcomings, and try to help out where some of our strengths can make up for someone else’s failings, and vice versa.
Winning – We tend not to crow about it, but our organization, with far fewer workers and much looser rules has been outperforming our European (company headquarters) groups for years and years. We know it, but we don’t try to rub their faces in it.
You’ll notice that all of my examples were business / work related. Since I live alone, I don’t get to practice a lot of interrelationship stuff with family members any more on a daily basis.