Depends when they see me.
Out in the evening at a restaurant or bar, I think they see an attractive women who smiles a lot and seems reasonably happy. Usually dressed fairly tailored! I still like the monochromatic look that was popular in the early 90’s. I am also often in jeans and usually heals no matter what I am wearing.
See me at the gym, and I probably look tired and not very attractive the majority of the time. I literally had a women come up to me and ask if I was ok last week. Like, ok, am I going to fall down or something.
Make-up makes a huge difference on my face. It makes my eyes sparkle and give color to my pale face. I get compliments on my eyes a lot. When I was younger people used to point out my lips also, not anymore.
Some people when I was younger have told me they first thought I would be unfriendly or snobby when they first saw me, and quickly realized how wrong they were.