I think that people who become mods really underestimate the pressures of the job. It will change you. You get a lot of complaints, and start to get into this bunker mentality in feeling you have to defend your decisions. This changes you. You get fluther head. Which is a different personality from your true personality.
I say this just from observing how people change. I know they change because often they are people I like before they become mods, and then, not long after they are mods, they become people I argue with a lot. They become antagonistic. They pick fights they don’t need to pick. Then, when they go back to being civilians, they seem to change back. I am, of course, not speaking of anyone in particular. Just the anonymous mods as a group.
I figure I was never asked to be a mod because they know I have trouble with the rules, so they couldn’t trust me to enforce the rules properly. Or maybe they don’t ask people to moderate. You have to volunteer. It is not a job I would ever volunteer for because I couldn’t enforce rules I believe hurt the website. I agree with modding spammers, but that’s about it.
Anyway, I think the moderation experience must burn people out. You’re looking for things that are controversial and even if you try to be honest about it, you can’t do it. Everyone has their own prejudices that they probably can’t see. I really wish they would take the attitude that if they think a decision is at all questionable, then it’s not worth modding it. If it isn’t completely black, then it shouldn’t be modded.
But I don’t think that’s how they think about is, and so they make it tough for themselves, and get shit for what they do, and they are volunteers and trying to help, yet they feel like people think they made it worse.
SO when they are done, they’re tired of fluther. I don’t blame them. Of course, I’m sure they could speak for themselves if they wanted to.