@Symbeline She has made most of us back off, we’re trying to be respectful of their relationship as we know SO’s come and go, but we’re all always friends. Now four years later, they’re wanting to ease back into group activities and we’re glad because we’ve missed our friend.
The only drawback is the issues above, and no one wants another four years of him not being around because we’ve ‘upset’ his girl or hurt her feelings. It worked out really well Sunday but she was still obnoxious so we’re trying to figure out how to shut her up nicely.
@diavolobella I feel a little sorry for her too, which is why I don’t want to hurt her feelings. I mean, if your SO had a group of besties and they all stopped coming around when you started a relationship, it would be difficult to NOT think it was because of you, but she’s also a crap-stirrer. Like she told ME that one of our really good friends (who is highly educated) thought he was better than everybody else, which is not true at all. So I’m not sure that she’s that nice of a person.
Thanks for the replies, I’m getting that I need to get to know her better, give her the benefit of the doubt, then maybe I can gently shut her up…lol