What I didn’t say above is that I tried to get to know my sisters but their parents, my father and his wife, their mother, were not cool with it at all. My sisters followed their lead and dropped me like a hot potato, now with little brother wanting to try, I don’t want to mess it up.
One of the things that caused a problem was that they kept bringing up the past, like how things got so messed up, then when they confronted their parents, I was the bad guy.
Basically my dad was sleeping with my mom and their mom, he was a Deputy Sherriff in a small town and was very good-looking. So my mom got pregnant, he wanted me to be aborted, she refused and raised me alone. He finally started paying child support when the state sued him when I was twelve and then he made us do a blood test and go to court, when I look just like him (and two of my sibs.)
Needless to say, I just want to move forward, and if we can be friends, that would be great. So I guess I’ll just steer the conversation to ‘now’ instead of ‘back in the 70’s”, right?!